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"Love the one whom you love in moderation, perhaps one day he will be one whom you hate. And hate the one whom you hate in moderation, perhaps one day he will be one whom you love"
(Reported by at-Tirmidhi)
As a Jasmine I know has said, the only thing that is ever gained from betraying someone is paranoia and lie-telling skills. That means that when you stab someone in the back, (no matter what your reasons) your own ability to trust is affected - and at some stage you will have to lie to avoid being discovered. This will reduce you - a powerful and good human being - to the level of cockroach.
I've teetered on that fence -and I feel as though each time I'm about to tip I am caught by the almighty grace and grace only.
Don't do it. Its not worth it. You wont get any good from it.
Dear betrayed soul, tell yourself that while it might be worth salvaging and/or recycling, you leave that chore to someone else who lacks character and is desirous of a codependency-type relationship built on egg shells, emotional blackmail, and vain promises – a short term 'disposable' relationship. After all, aren't those who lack moral fiber also entitled to association?
I've read your last posts - don't know what it is that you are going through but do know that during my life I have found women to have a particular kind of internal regenerative strength that always kicks in after the pain of an experience hits
I think that's what women are - the power of regeneration. We're like those animals who lose limbs that grow back stronger, better, fresher
You know what? I'm inspired! You've inspired me....I can feel another post cooking :0) Thank you Sultana Lime
PS: Here if you need to offload jasminesyard@hotmail.co.uk xx
I think the best thing I can do is to know myself and identify the problems -really. And not just that, find solutions. Whether it means staying away from certain kinds of people or fixing myself.
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